June 20, 2017 by
Why we don’t want to believe most of this scandals is because of the love and respect we have for most of this men of GOD. The victims most times are the cause of this scandals. I witnessed the closeness of our single and married ladies to our pastors but most often they come close not because they want to seduce the pastor but with the mindset of coming closer to GOD but forgetting that this pastors are human and if not with good control will end up doing evil they are not prepared to do. When a lady constantly come close to a man(pastors), most times bad signals are sent out especially from the ladies who may at one point start having feeling for the pastors unknowingly. Just like every other animals ,the male is created to understand this signals and react to it. Though most times it’s a deliberate act from both parties. Pastors should learn to stop such intimacy at all cost at the early stage as it will definitely get to a stage when one or both parties will lose control and that will be unstoppable. Out of 100% just 5% will control this urge and they will not always be loved by their female members and at some point seen as  harsh pastors. When a man is rich, famous and commands the respect of many, he tends to unconsciously attract the ladies too. If he leaves a little room for weakness, people (not only the women) will take advantage of this conciously (or unconsciously) too though in the case of African men, they only give loop holes to sex. Then because of riches and power he has over people , when there is sex scandal especially with not too rich single ladies, it is easily covered up but with the rich,the media airs it, yet nothing comes out of it. The immunity that protects the politicians when they commit evil has a similarity that protects the pastors when they do same not until its blown out of proportion .Though the smart ones will make you an offer you won’t refuse to keep the victims mouth shut. Imagine if this same act was done by a poor pastor,it will from stage one be blown out of proportion and the whole world will hear it and not only that,the law will deal with him.  Some rumors about Nigerian pastors committing this sex scam are raising daily  and below are few of them. 1. Apostle Johnson Suleman The latest pastor to be accused of having an intimate relationship with a lady is Apostle Suleman, the founder of Omega Fire Ministries. Social media went into a frenzy on Monday when a lady identified as Stepahnie Otobo called out the fiery pastor, claiming he impregnated her and later dumped her. She alleged that they both spent time alone in a hotel where they had intercourse among others practices. Apostle Suleman has denied the allegations which he said were false. According to him, he has never met with the lady before even though they had discussed about her plight in 2016. 2. Pastor Chukwuma Nkwocha Nkwocha, the General Overseer of Tongue of Fire Restoration Ministry, was arrested in 2016 for allegedly camping and defiling about 30 under-aged girls. The Lagos state command spring into action after receiving a report that the pastor with a church situated on Jacob Taiwo Street Oshodi was harbouring some young girls and freely having unlawful canal knowledge of them. 3. Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo In 2013, a blogger identified as Ese Walter boldly came out to accuse Pastor Fatoyinbo of COZA (Common Wealth Of Zion Assembly) of having an affair with her. Ese, who was also a member of the church claimed the man of God had an affair with her while in the UK. As if Ese’s accusations were not enough, another lady, Franca E. who claimed to be a victim also accused Fatoyinbo of the same thing. Addressing the scandal, the man of God said he was well aware of the accusations and subsequent uproar on social networks but that he would be ignoring it. 4. Sunday Adelaja In 2016, the founder and senior pastor of the Embassy of God, an evangelical-charismatic megachurch in the Ukrainian capital of Kiev was enmeshed in an adultery scandal following allegations that he had extramarital affairs with at least 20 women in his church. Adelaja denied the allegations levelled against him which he said was an attempt by some people to take over the church from him. Interestingly, Adelaja's confession came one month after he shared a video on his blog titled “Sexual Sin Is Not Enough to Take You to Hell.” (now deleted) What is even more surprising is that the church has not issued a public statement regarding the case as an inside matter. 5. Dr Sign Fireman In 2014, reports surfaced that the church’s General Overseer of Perfect Christianity Mission, Aguda, Surulere, Lagos, Ofuche Ukoha aka Dr. Sign Fireman, was involved in an alleged Sexual assault and killing of a 12-year-old girl in Badagry. The incident made him popular and almost tarnished his ministry. 6. Pastor Chris Oyakhilome In 2014, it came as surprise when report surfaced that the founder of Believers Love World Ministry aka Christ Embassy, Pastor Chris and his wife, Anita Oyakhilome, were getting porced. Anita who filed for porce was said to have cited irreconcilable differences bordering on alleged adultery and unreasonable behaviour. However, the pastor, according to an elder of the church, denied allegations of adultery and believes his wife was being influenced by “bad friends” who were intent on destroying their home. 7. Chris Oyakhilome’s brother, Rev. Ken Not long after the Pastor Chris porce saga, there was another report that his brother Rev. Ken, allegedly impregnated a South African lady who was a member of the Church in Randburg, Guateng, which is the headquarters of Christ Embassy, South Africa. His reported affair with the lady was said to be an “open secret” among the parishioners. When the news about the woman’s pregnancy started making rounds, church officials reportedly fudged the issue to prevent scandal. Also, the pregnancy was reportedly aborted with the knowledge of church leaders, report says. 8. Apostle Psalm Okpe Following the scandal that rocked the general overseer of Fresh Oil Ministry, Apostle Psalm Okpe, over the death of a popular female gospel singer who allegedly died in a hotel room,after honouring an invitation from the apostle, star actress Eucharia Anunobi has been under attack by fans over the development. This is because the accused apostle is said to not only be the veteran actress’ pastor but he was also the one who ordained her as an evangelist.Although many reports flooded the social media pointing accusations at the light skinned actress, Eucharia has remained silent over the development.She neither disassociated herself with the apostle nor rose to his defense.   More money more problems!!!